I don't relate to the posts about death and grieving that I see on Facebook. Is there something wrong with me? There are lots of things wrong with me. But the way I deal with death is not one of them. We are all different. Our attitudes and feelings about death are shaped by countless factors, beliefs and experiences. Age is a part of it. My wife was 80 and I was 83 when she died. I have experienced more deaths than I can remember. I suppose it would be cruel and heartless to suggest that you might get over the grieving. But you almost do.